Seniors with Alzheimer’s or Dementia commonly upset the people closest to them. It is important to remember that they are not doing this intentionally to hurt you. Their brains are failing and the delusions are symptoms of the disease.
People with dementia and Alzheimer’s often feel anxiety, frustration, and a sense of loss. Those feelings, plus memory loss and confusion, can also lead to paranoia. This happens because of their declining cognitive abilities. They’re trying to make sense of their reality as best they can. Focus on reassuring them and show them that you care about how they’re feeling.
Don’t argue or use logic to convince – Arguing will only make them upset and more insistent. Instead, let them express their feelings, and opinions. It helps if they feel heard and validated.
Use a calm, soothing tone – Bring the adrenaline level down by speaking in a gentle, calm tone, or offer a gentle touch or hug. Create a calm environment – This will help reduce the tension and stress.Reduce noise and commotion by turning off the TV, asking others to leave the room, or playing relaxing music at a low volume.Aromatherapy is another way to create a soothing environment.
Stick to simple answers as to no overwhelm them or cause more agitation or confusion. Distract them with activities they enjoy as soon as possible after sympathising with them. This will help them to stop obsessing. Maybe offer a favourite snack or drink. Or see if they want to go for a walk.
Seek support and advice from people who understand – remember you are not alone, there are so many support groups and people that can help.